A good friend is hard to find

In Friends, Lessons, Life on May 16, 2011 by kiltforhire Tagged: , , , ,

When I left Scotland I left behind a whole bunch of amazing people. I left behind a group of guys who I would gladly give my life so any one of them could live. The last time I was in Scotland (about three years ago) I dropped in on my mate Stew and although we hadn’t seen each other in three years we had a beer, sat on the sofa and spoke and laughed and ripped the piss out of each other as if we had only been hanging about the day before.

Frienship is a very rare gift. They are the people who are there for you when you are down and who make you smile and laugh. They give you advice. They help you through your life and without them your life is not near as full as it should be.

There are times in life when I have pissed off or upset my friends. There are times when I have probably driven them to tearing their hair out. And there are times when I have been on the verge of losing friends.

I feel like right now that is happening.

There is one friend out there who I hold in an incredibly high-regard.

He is incredibly intelligent and great fun to talk to but on the flip side he a worrier and sometimes far too deadly serious for his own good. He is a lovely person and has helped me through a lot while living in Australia and I like to think that if we had met in another country we would still be friends.

I have, I’m afraid to say, been sadly missing as a friend lately and I’m gonna change that. I’ve already emailed him to say that I’ve been a crap friend lately and that I intend to change that.

Hopefully he understands and accepts the olive branch/white flag/big bit of haggis I’m putting out there.

The richest person in the world is the person who is surrounded by good friends…

3 Responses to “A good friend is hard to find”

  1. Great post Scotty

  2. It’s a sad thing, the feeling of a great friendship slipping through your fingers. There is that moment of helplessness and anticipation, waiting and hoping that all is not lost. I’ve been through a similar experience recently with my best friend of 14 years. I was fortunate that she came around. I hope that whoever your friend is, they also realise the value and meaning of this friendship.

  3. Well said,

    I’ve got two friends from school we’ve known each othr for over 20years now from single blokes out on the piss to married men with kids of our own.

    I’d give my life for either of them.

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